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Your Guide to Massage Etiquette: What to Expect at Sunshine Therapy Spa

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If you're searching for "massage near me" in Casselberry and feeling a little nervous about your first visit, you're not alone. Many first-time clients wonder what to expect, how to prepare, and what the proper etiquette is when visiting an Asian massage spa. At Sunshine Therapy Spa, we want every guest to feel completely comfortable and informed, so we've put together this comprehensive guide to help you get the most out of your massage experience.

 

Before Your Appointment

 

Booking Your Session

When you're ready to book, whether you're looking for massage available now or planning ahead, it's helpful to have a sense of what you're hoping to achieve. Are you dealing with specific pain or tension? Looking for general relaxation? Planning a special couples massage for an anniversary? The more we know about your goals, the better we can tailor your experience.

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Don't hesitate to ask questions when booking. Our staff has heard every question imaginable, and we'd much rather answer your concerns upfront than have you worry unnecessarily. If you're looking for a specific type of massage—whether that's traditional Thai massage, gentle pregnancy massage, or therapeutic Shiatsu—let us know so we can match you with the right therapist.

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What to Wear (or Not Wear)

This is probably the most common question we receive. The short answer is: wear whatever makes you comfortable getting to and from our spa. You'll be changing once you arrive, and most clients undress to their level of comfort. Some prefer to completely undress, while others keep undergarments on. There's no right or wrong choice here.

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Your massage therapist will leave the room while you undress and get situated on the table under the sheet. Throughout your entire session, you'll be properly draped—only the area being worked on will be uncovered, and that area will be covered again before moving to the next. Professional draping is something we take very seriously in Asian massage traditions.

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If you're coming in for a couples massage, you and your partner will each have your own massage table and therapist, with the same privacy and draping standards maintained throughout.

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Arriving at the Spa

Plan to arrive about ten to fifteen minutes before your scheduled appointment time. This gives you time to fill out any necessary paperwork (especially important for first visits), use the restroom, and transition mentally from the busy world outside to the peaceful environment we've created inside.

 

If you're running late, give us a call. We'll do our best to accommodate you, though significant delays may mean we need to shorten your session to avoid impacting the next client. When people search for "massage available now," they're often hoping for immediate availability, and we try hard to honor everyone's scheduled time.

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During Your Massage

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Communication is Key

Your massage therapist isn't a mind reader, even the most experienced ones with decades of training in traditional Chinese massage techniques. You need to speak up about pressure, temperature, and comfort. "Is this pressure okay?" isn't just a polite question—your therapist genuinely wants to know.

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Some people worry that asking for adjustments will offend their therapist. I promise you, it won't. Massage therapists want you to have the best possible experience. If the pressure is too light or too intense, if the room feels cold, if you need to adjust your position—say something. A simple "could you use a bit more pressure?" or "that's a little too intense on my lower back" helps your therapist give you exactly what you need.

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If you're uncomfortable speaking up during the session, that's okay too. Many clients, especially those new to Asian massage therapy, feel more comfortable staying quiet. But at minimum, if something hurts in a bad way (sharp pain, pinching, discomfort), please let us know immediately.

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The Pressure Question

Different massage styles use different pressure levels. Thai massage and Shiatsu often involve deeper pressure and stretching, while Swedish massage tends to be gentler. But within each style, there's still a range. What feels like "medium" pressure to one person might feel intense to another.

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During your session, your therapist will likely check in about pressure. On a scale of one to ten, where ten is too much, most people enjoy pressure around a six or seven for therapeutic work. But everyone's different. Some clients want to feel like they've really been worked on, while others prefer a gentler, more relaxing touch. Neither is wrong—it's about what your body needs that day.

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The Talking Dilemma

Should you chat during your massage or stay quiet? Honestly, it's entirely up to you. Some people find conversation relaxing and enjoy connecting with their therapist. Others come to massage for peace and quiet, especially those who work in demanding jobs or have busy home lives. Most therapists will follow your lead—if you seem chatty, they'll engage; if you're quiet, they'll let you rest.

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For couples massage, some partners like to occasionally comment to each other, while others prefer to each have their own private experience. Both approaches work fine.

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One note: if you do want to talk, remember that your therapist's hands are busy working, so they might not respond immediately or extensively. That's not rudeness—it's concentration on giving you the best bodywork possible.

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Your Phone and the Outside World

This should go without saying, but please silence your phone before your massage. If you absolutely must keep your phone on for an emergency, let your therapist know beforehand and keep it on vibrate. But ideally, your massage time is your time to disconnect completely.

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We've all become so connected to our devices that the idea of being unreachable for an hour can feel uncomfortable. But that disconnection is part of the therapeutic benefit. The world will still be there when you're done, I promise.

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Body Noise Happens

Your stomach might gurgle. You might pass gas. Your joints might crack. Your muscles might twitch. These are all completely normal responses to massage. Your therapist has experienced all of this countless times and doesn't think twice about it. Massage stimulates your digestive system, releases tension, and triggers various physical responses. Don't be embarrassed—just relax and let your body do what it needs to do.

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If You Fall Asleep

Many clients worry about falling asleep during their massage, as if it's somehow rude. Actually, falling asleep is a compliment to your therapist—it means you're deeply relaxed and trusting. It's completely fine and actually quite common, especially during longer sessions.

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If you snore, that's fine too. We've heard it all. Some therapists even see it as a sign they're doing their job well.

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Special Considerations

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Pregnancy Massage Etiquette

If you're pregnant and booking a pregnancy massage, let us know how far along you are when scheduling. After the first trimester, you'll be positioned either side-lying with pillows for support or in a specially designed position that's safe for you and your baby. Never lie flat on your back for extended periods during the second or third trimester.

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Communication is even more important during pregnancy massage. Your body is changing rapidly, and areas that felt fine last week might be tender this week. Let your therapist know about any swelling, pain, or discomfort.

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Couples Massage Dynamics

Couples massage is one of our most popular services, perfect for anniversaries, date nights, or just reconnecting with your partner. A few etiquette notes specifically for couples:

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You'll each have your own therapist and table, usually in the same room. You don't need to synchronize your experience or check in with each other constantly. It's okay to each be in your own zone. However, if one of you needs something adjusted (temperature, pressure, etc.), speak up—don't suffer in silence to avoid "bothering" your partner.

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Also, couples massage is just that—massage for couples. It's not a romantic or intimate experience in that sense. Save the romance for after you leave, relaxed and rejuvenated together.

 

Tipping Etiquette

Tipping customs for massage can be confusing, especially since practices vary by region and type of establishment. At our Asian massage spa in Casselberry, tipping is appreciated but never required. If you feel your therapist provided excellent service, a tip of 15-20% is customary, similar to restaurant standards.

If you're not sure about the math, especially after a deeply relaxing massage when your brain might be a bit fuzzy, here's a simple guideline: for an $80 one-hour massage, $15-20 is appropriate. For couples massage, each person typically tips their own therapist.

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You can provide tips in cash directly to your therapist or add it to your card payment at the front desk. Either way is perfectly acceptable.

 

After Your Massage

 

That Post-Massage Feeling

After your massage, take your time getting up from the table. Sit up slowly, take a few deep breaths, and give yourself a moment to reorient. Some people feel a bit lightheaded after massage, especially if they've been face-down for a while. This is normal and passes quickly.

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You might feel a bit "out of it" or spacey after your massage. This is actually a sign of deep relaxation—your nervous system has shifted into rest-and-digest mode. Enjoy this feeling. Don't rush immediately back into a packed schedule if you can avoid it.

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Hydration Matters

You'll probably hear your therapist mention drinking water after your massage. This isn't just something we say out of habit—it's actually important. Massage increases circulation and can release metabolic waste from your tissues. Drinking water helps flush these waste products and prevents that achy, flu-like feeling some people experience after deep tissue work.

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If you had an intense session with firm pressure, you might feel a bit sore the next day, similar to how you'd feel after a good workout. This is normal and should resolve within a day or two. If soreness persists or is severe, let us know when you book your next appointment.

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Scheduling Your Next Visit

The front desk will offer to schedule your next appointment before you leave. You're not obligated to book immediately, but there are advantages to doing so. Regular massage provides cumulative benefits—weekly or monthly sessions can help manage chronic pain, reduce stress, and maintain overall wellness better than occasional visits.

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If you loved your therapist, you can request them for future appointments. Most clients who establish a regular massage routine prefer seeing the same therapist, who becomes familiar with their body, their problem areas, and their preferences.

 

Common Etiquette Questions

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Is it weird to get massage alone?

Absolutely not. The majority of massage clients come alone. Solo massage is a normal, healthy form of self-care. Whether you're searching for "massage near me" because you need relief from work stress, training for a marathon, or just want to treat yourself—you don't need a special reason or a companion.

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What if I'm not comfortable with my therapist?

While it's rare, sometimes personalities just don't mesh. If you're uncomfortable for any reason, you can ask to switch therapists. Reputable establishments like ours want you to have a positive experience. You can make this request during your session or when booking your next appointment.

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Should I shower before coming in?

You don't need to shower immediately before, but basic hygiene is appreciated—your therapist's face will be close to your body for an hour or more. If you're coming straight from the gym or a physically demanding job, freshen up if possible. We have facilities if you need to wash your feet before foot reflexology.

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What about body hair, scars, skin conditions?

Massage therapists are healthcare professionals who've worked on thousands of bodies. Body hair, scars, stretch marks, skin conditions—we've seen it all and don't judge. If you have an active skin infection or contagious condition, that's different (you should reschedule), but normal skin variations, surgical scars, and body differences are completely fine.

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Can I request a male or female therapist?

Yes, absolutely. When booking, you can request a therapist of a specific gender. Many of our clients have preferences based on comfort level, type of massage needed, or personal history. We never take offense at these requests.

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The Bigger Picture

Understanding massage etiquette helps you relax and get the most therapeutic benefit from your session. When you're not worried about whether you're "doing it right," you can fully surrender to the experience. That's when the real healing happens—when your nervous system downshifts, your muscles release their habitual holding patterns, and your body remembers what true relaxation feels like.

At Sunshine Therapy Spa, we've worked with thousands of clients over the years, from massage newcomers to people who've been getting regular bodywork for decades. We've drawn on traditional Chinese massage wisdom passed down through generations, combined with modern understanding of anatomy and therapeutic techniques. Our goal isn't just to provide a service but to create a space where healing can happen.

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Whether you're searching last-minute for "massage available now" to address sudden pain, planning ahead for a special couples massage, or establishing a regular self-care routine at our Asian massage spa in Casselberry, we want you to feel completely comfortable. The etiquette guidelines in this article aren't rigid rules—they're suggestions to help you feel confident and relaxed.

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Your first visit might feel a bit unfamiliar, but by your second or third session, you'll be a massage regular, walking in ready to sink into the table and let the healing begin. And that's when massage transitions from an occasional luxury to an essential part of maintaining your health and wellbeing.

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We look forward to welcoming you to Sunshine Therapy Spa, where traditional Asian healing arts meet modern therapeutic practice, right here in Casselberry. Whether you're five minutes away or coming from across the greater Orlando area, we're here to help you find relief, relaxation, and restoration.

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Your body deserves this care. You deserve this time. We're here to make sure your experience is everything you hope it will be.

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